I’ve heard many stories of people’s sex lives slowly ebbing away as time goes on. On the other hand, I’ve also become aware of long term couples still keeping it hot in the bedroom. So I ask you today, how do you keep the spark in the bedroom?
I’ve heard many stories of people’s sex lives slowly ebbing away as time goes on. On the other hand, I’ve also become aware of long term couples still keeping it hot in the bedroom. So I ask you today, how do you keep the spark in the bedroom?
We love and lust each other, more and more it seems as time goes on. But, we flirt with each other throughout the day, we are constantly touchy feely outside the bedroom, naughty pics to each other at times. We let each other know the other is wanted, craved, lusted for. In the bedroom, we don’t plan or think, it just ends up different every time. A quickie before kids get home from practice, a 2 hour marathon, a slow grind, a down and dirty romp. Nothing forced or over the top, but spontaneous and fluid. Neither one of us need bondage or a third or to have someone watch, or whatever may be considered “spicing it up”. If you’re with the right person, it seems, just letting go and letting it happen keeps it spiced up. That said, the same position on the same night of the week st the same time? That’d get old pretty quick.
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So the thing to do is just go for it and see how it turns out? I’ll keep that in mind when I find the one.
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Yep. Just that simple. For us, at least. We just crave each other, and we let each other know that. That in itself is an aphrodisiac, and that anticipation is delicious. 😃
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Simplicity is key, as my Grandpa said. Though I don’t believe he was referring to sex.
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Hahaha! Probably not. 😃
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Mind you, he was said to have been quite the rake when he was younger.
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Hahaha! Hey man, even grandpa’s were young dudes too. I’m sure he had his fun as well. 😃
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Well he’s no longer with us, but he was the best.
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They always are. I don’t have any grandparents left. Miss them every day. 😕
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Grandparents are the best.
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Mine sure were. Fantastic and was basically raised by one of mine. Breaks my heart not being able to talk to him especially.
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I miss my Grandpa so much too. Though it’s funny thinking that he was a player as a young man.
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Hahaha! He wasn’t always a grandpa. 😏
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True that. Once he met my Grandma, he said it was true love. His player days were over.
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I know exactly what he’s talking about. 😃
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You’re such a lucky dude. You’re in a happy marriage and have great sex. Perfect combo.
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Like I’ve said before, Im the luckiest SOB on the planet. 😃
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You most certainly are. I hope to join you in that rank one day.
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I sure hope you do too! 😃
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Celibate 😬👋
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Hope this post didn’t make you feel uncomfortable.
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Not at all 🙂 I’m writing about sex a lot and I talk about it freely 😂😂
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That’s good to know.
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In my case I no longer think too much about spicy. After a certain age (at least for me), anything is a bonus! 🙂
Best wishes, Pete.
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I’m sure you still have fun though.
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I reckon you’re a secret sex God.
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Drugs, alcohol and rock ‘n’ roll 😀 😀 😀
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Classic combo.
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😉
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I love that cheeky emoji.
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I love dressing up for my husband, especially on vacation.
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Ooh, how very sexy. Any particular outfits?
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Do crazy things outside the bedroom😝 and random places all over. Woot!💜 I also do kinky things like role play, dress up in like a dirty nurse attire or some kind of lingerie I have put away in my closet for rainy days, give a surprise blow job, and we will bring another sexual partner into the bedroom to spice things up on the occasion as well!💙
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I love some lingerie. And I’m a sucker for receiving a blowjob.
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I love seeing a lady in some lingerie as well!😀 I think many of men get sucked in by a blowjob! LMAO!😂😂😂
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Haha, nice innuendo there. I love the sight of a lady in some lacy basque.
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And if you like ladies in lingerie, check this out.
https://bunsareallthatyourequirehere.wordpress.com/2018/04/21/something-sexy/
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Put on sexy lingerie and send surprise pictures during the day 😉. You can never have enough sexy underwear.
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Yes, sexy underwear does the trick.
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